Generally we find ourselves trying too hard, interfering with our own natural learning abilities. Most don't realize, but internal dialogue, overthinking, and over-coaching interferes with the discovery of ones own potential. What’s the most common piece of advice you’re likely to receive for getting better at something? Try harder. Work harder. Put more effort in. Pay more attention to what you’re doing. Do more. Yet what do we experience when we are performing at our best? The exact opposite. Everything becomes effortless. Act without thinking and don't give yourself time to think. Stop judging actions as good or bad and observe them as they are, "in the zone."